It’s no secret that Mandarin can sound pretty direct to the ears of an English speaker.
For example…
You may have noticed that words like “please” (请 qǐng) and “thank you” (谢谢 xiè xiè) often aren't used in situations where you’d expect to hear these in English.
And this is especially true in conversations among relatives and close friends — something a student of mine observed while spending time with his parents-in-law in Beijing:
“One thing that always astonishes me is how [in Chinese] you can just directly ask for things without saying please – and in the family setting it almost seems to be rude if you do say your please and thank yous. That’s one of the hardest things for a polite Canadian like me to get used to!” - Anthony M.
Now, of course…
Mandarin Chinese has lots of words and expressions to show politeness.
And under the right circumstances, they can definitely have a positive effect on the listener.
This is especially the case….
... when you ask for something (unexpectedly) from people you don’t know well
... in formal situations
So, let’s have a look at some of those expressions!
(Warning: This video contains aggressive body language & rude tone of voice... )
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The 5 Expressions From The Video (With More Examples)
不好意思 bù hǎo yì sī
lit. not good + meaning
to be sorry (for inconveniencing somebody)
to feel embarrassed (about something)
Example 1:
不好意思,我没带钱包。
bù hǎo yì sī,wǒ méi dài qián bāo.
Sorry, I didn’t bring my wallet.
Example 2:
不好意思,我们只收现金。
bù hǎo yì sī,wǒ men zhǐ shōu xiàn jīn.
Sorry, we only take cash.
Example 3:
不好意思,我迟到了。
bù hǎo yì sī,wǒ chí dào le.
Sorry, I’m late.
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